年运）莎拉爱情年运2014
前言今年夏天，灿烂夺目的木星将进入激情四射的狮子座，这一年我们都可以期待自己的爱情王国里会发生奇迹！直到2014年底，土星依然会导致我们情绪上的起起落落，但它却给了我们时间去修正计划，呵护自己的心情，从而避免了太快地跳入深渊；也会让我们知道，直觉总会确保我们受益，而充满期待的想法却常常落空。我们有机会跟随心灵的喜悦，去发现一条全新的更好的道路，通往爱的世界…
★★★白羊座——译者：冒险家Amanda
如果1月的第一个星期，每天早上都对着镜子重复“激情，信念，力量”这三个词组成的咒语，咩的人生将会迎来重大转变走上溜光大道。你那蛊惑人心的说服力和不容置疑的影响力将引导你在新的一年里开启精彩绝伦的爱情冒险。
有伴儿的咩，2月中旬时需要处理的问题是如何既保障你的自由（作者注：这对于每头咩来说都是无比重要的！）（为啥我那么黏人……）又能协调自如地与对方共舞。你们需要就彼此对于个人空间的需求进行妥协和包容。4月中旬，新的感情会向单身的咩招手，而勾搭成功的，则会很想向对方诉说你的恐惧怀疑和不安。这份感情是否会像以往的种种狗血一样，最终的结局是咩无比渴望一个人独处，对这缺乏新意的一切感到厌倦。还是咩需要借助新的感情打开一扇通往美丽新世界的大门，在那里，总有梦等你追，总有美好等你去发现。
而5月和7月会为咩的生活带来一些轻松的调剂以及逃避真相的机会。但是你必须选择面对而非逃避。大白羊，你有权利用咩的方式去爱，也只有你可以这样去爱。那就是自由之爱。（天，是我冥王太重吗，我怎么做不到……）整个9月和10月，咩再次变得自信而优雅，也有机会再续前缘重拾旧爱。所以，默念咩的专属咒语——“激情，信念和力量”，你就会知道该如何发自内心地去爱。
★★★金牛座——译者： 五四飞龙
新的一年，首先考虑自己，单身的牛牛，你会从追求者中选择一个，要是有多余的时间去享受纷繁的社交活动。但是土星，这个由来已久的铁手腕和十二宫独裁的实权人物，还要以沉重的脚步穿过你星图的关系角落直到年底。
如果即将做出长久的承诺或决定，那最好延迟到七月，即使那看起来是距离现在的长久时间。但如果你想提醒你的伙伴，你并不是破抹布，你有自己的雄心壮志，或只是告诉他们你是可靠的爱人、搭档，总是陪在他们身边，那时是毫不犹豫的。
四月，你感觉到意识的觉醒，似乎有人说了一句关键的话触发你自己态度的整个变化。只是不要对你最私人的感情做性急的决定。即使你的伴侣或追求者正不看好你的未来，他们可能正困惑于你想要从这段关系中要得到什么。
七月和八月，你解决了你们之间的任何意见上的分歧。更深层的感觉和长久的结合看起来不再遥远了。不论是单身或是有伴的，终于某人尊重你自信的素质，正如你尊重他们的一样。在十月初一个情侣结合走上了日程。
★★★双子座——译者：龙涎香
十三世纪的苏菲诗人鲁米曾写道：“打开窗户吧/请求月亮的到来/按下月亮的脸哦/将我唤醒。”这月之魔法的主旋律今年奇妙的在你的星座宫引起共鸣。我知道你不太乐意表明你的感情。必竟你是头脑冷静理性的风向星座。也比较情绪化，尽管有原因。但是是时候让月光照进你的生活，明亮起来。
三月之前，你认识到你确实需要无条件的爱，你也确实需要足够的空间与自由。你也确实需要凭自己的实力成为不平凡的人，出于你的人性之爱。不管你单身还是有伴的，行星驱使你表达你的那些需求。
五月中旬之前，你目前感情的大问题有了答案。但首先你得知道那些是什么问题。在六月底，也许看起来好像没人能真正理解你。亦或你与来自爱人或爱慕者表现出来的冷淡、疏远和各种规则作斗争。但是夏日的精神状态自然会带你走出这种不好的状态。社交上你总能做得最好：交际、注意观察、成为见识多广的人、文明的生活、派对中的小精灵。但骨子里你特立独行 侃侃而谈 且你的聪明表现 。 某个东西仍然需要复苏。那就是你！所以，又借用鲁米的诗“打开爱之窗吧file:///C:\DOCUME~1\ADMINI~1\LOCALS~1\Temp\U2]%50TOT_CDDX%BSA{59Y6.gif不会敲门file:///C:\DOCUME~1\ADMINI~1\LOCALS~1\Temp\U2]%50TOT_CDDX%BSA{59Y6.gif只能从窗口进入。”这就是你今年寻找的月之魔法，让它唤醒你！
★★★巨蟹座——译者： 喜喜
现在的宇宙简直是一团乱麻，不过因此也有很多巧合会发生。有时候我们要什么有什么，有时候又被爱情神秘的同步率惊讶到（什么也不说，也能收到想要的）。可能有的东西在别人眼里就是一堆垃圾吧，但是在你自己内心里，你已经开始逐渐知道什么是适合你的。今年你有很多的路可以走，也需要作出很多的选择。不论你是否脱单，你都可以为你的愿望行动起来，别觉得这些是浪费时间。
土星会给你机会，让你自己选择自己的命运。可能是从两个人之中选择一个作为你的伴侣，也可能是让你从一段毫无进展的关系中解放出来。可能是让你自己有意无意地进入新的圈子，这些陌生人能够反映出你内心的爱。在7月中旬的时候，至少都会有一个人愿意听你倾诉，而不是一心只想着他们自己。
不管你信不信，8月的时候，你会拥有一种意志，一个真实的自我，你会划定自己的疆界。你要引以为傲。像是诗人Rossetti所说，不论是一夜情还是爱情长跑，你们都有“静默相通的两颗心。”但是在沉默中，你能听到一个声音，你可以说是来自你心深处，或者是你最内心的指引，或者是你最高的自我——随便你怎么叫它——这个声音都在要求你被某个出现在秋天的特别的人所倾听，所珍爱。
★★★狮子座——译者：阿妩
爱情和婚姻密不可分，就像马和马车那么搭。但患难与共并非理所当然。2月，伴侣最好是能跟上你的脚步，因为此时，你正在设想进行新的、激动人心的冒险和远征--有没有他们都行。
如果是单身喵，动身前往更为温暖的国度，寻找一头充满激情的小野兽，和他在一起你可以冲浪、滑水和享受日光浴，他能刺激你的精神，同样，还有身体。这便是那种所谓的冒险，并将在这个春季带来益处。躁动的感觉难以抑制，那种不断烦扰的“别处青草更绿”的小小想法，会让你在五月尝试新的地点和拓展疆域。只要确保你想突破的界限是那些真正想要挣脱的。
坚定的行动将在7月带来结果。随着木星进入狮子座，你会处于赢家的状态。无论是网球比赛还是赢得爱人的心，你都要横扫一切。但是9月，给自己点时间休息和思考，呼吸新鲜空气，合理饮食，偶尔排排毒，宠爱自己点。要不然，你就会发现很难应付苛刻的、堆积如山的家庭事务和工作。
十月下旬，尽量找时间冥想，理解烦恼背后的原因，在说出一些可能会后悔的话之前，先数到十。但是在11月，随着活跃和有益的能量环绕在你周围，你准备好了新的情绪反应和有力的、热情的交流。
★★★处女座——译者：lady oracle
在新一年，或许某个瞬间，你会在不经意间想起大混沌理论的鳞爪概念。在这个理论中，一切皆有定数，草坪上的雪花与那个聚会中因你的经过而不禁凝神观望的陌生人之间，有着不可思议的、千丝万缕的联系。也许，正如Douglas Adams所论述的，生命灵数的答案是42，但是这答案所对应的问题又是什么呢？（译者注：指银河系漫游五部曲的作者道格拉斯.亚当斯，今年的《地心引力》也有向该书致敬的桥段）
这一年，你会见识爱情如何以神秘的方式萌动。但是如果你想运筹帷幄，当然也包括控制你的支出消费，在3月里你就会发现一切并不是如你所想象的尽在掌握。你认为“永恒的现在”是个美丽的哲学，但是你个人关于未来安全感的体会又是怎样呢？它似乎正被混乱的联系所威胁。可预见的是，如果你是单身，你的倾慕者或对你伺机而动者，将会引你进入迷醉甚至堕落。几近爆表的热度，激情与肉欲，这是你在6月中旬要特别注意的事。不过等到7月中旬，秩序就会重建，你也将对这份爱有所掌控。不管怎样，对于所有的浪漫、惊喜、两性间触电般的欲望火花，回复正常都是一件真正的好事。夏之精神将带你暂时出离自我，你会沉溺于爱与欢笑，并且你也会喜欢这样的自己。
随后，进入10月末，你内心的天使将对你喃喃私语“请感知那份激情，看清你们之间的爱意，聆听细雨的声音，尝试未知的事物，他们既全都是混乱，但其实也正是你”。现在是时候了，你要将自己从那个所谓“世间万物井然有序”的理论中解放出来。
★★★天秤座——译者: 佳佳
这个现象很有趣：很多"FL"开头的(英文)词语用来描述你2014年的行为与个性看起来非常贴切。比如"调情，反复，天分，艳丽"，然后是"肉锅，完美"(译注:可以构想出一幅图画"两个人一起吃火锅"，完美的结局)。但我认为你会明白。事实上，如果你不是到处折腾，就是会翻看旅游宣传册，寻找异国海岸与浪漫风情。
四月份是你收拾心情再次投入浪漫生活的时间。创造性的想法与性冲动会涌进生活，并且你知道必须要做些什么来推动一段关系继续向前。可是问题来了？五月是你漂亮的起点：确定爱的目标，发掘自我真正的价值观，并遵照自己的原则来生活。但是，如果你没能够鲜明独特地表达出你是谁，他们会是什么反应？会有人(如果你单身，就是潜在的暗恋你的人；如果你已经有伴，就是那一位)在那里惊异地举起手来(译注:就是要问你问题搞清楚你是怎么回事)，而不是举起香槟庆祝一个崭新的，激情澎湃，积极进取的你。
来到六月份，沟通的渠道会再次敞开，你会问及此前你一直回避的问题。你的伴侣是要求某种承诺，还是仅仅要你这个人？更重要的是，你可以展望与那个人共度未来吗？如果你还单身，九月份就会与你爱的人走到一起。今年就像坐过山车一样，最终会成功停靠，但首先你要逛山掠景，尽享你多情的天分，跟随爱的潮流…
★★★天蝎座——译者：子夜
经历过去年的一系列月相周期，你一直被感动得说出自己都不信的话，做了自己都不信的事吧。你只是做出反应，你只是这么做了，因为不这样的话，人又不会喜爱那个真实的你。而在2014年，你慢慢地能按照自己的韵律演奏乐章了，给自己一个（冒险）的机会真的让你内心感觉更安心。
3月，人们看上去充满信心，恋人们都盼望着能多感受乐趣，而你呢，还在哄骗自己你并不需要时不时地冒个险神马的。但你是需要去冒险的。你要跳出自我（封闭），学习指挥若定，允许自己偶尔犯错，好比选错了衣服，乃至选错了伴侣。土星在7月前都在天蝎座发威，撩拨着你去表达自己的感受，承认自己害怕孤单和需要归属感。你呢也会有一点矛盾：感情上是愿意给予的，但同时也想收回。
8月的时候，问问自己下面几个问题然后诚实地回答——彼时行星会在你面前竖个宝贵的大镜子，让你能客观地审视自己。问题：你的生活令人满意吗？真心的渴望实现了吗？到10月呢，如瓷器般碎了的爱情能够得到恢复和修补（就是破镜重圆啊）——但只有当你采取行动，勤去沟通，并不断告诉自己、恋人或新欢你在爱情上甘冒奇险才成。一旦你这样做了，真正海枯石烂、牢不可破的耐情的魔法就终得施展。
★★★射手座——译者：Anglina
有一个古老的童谣： 红桃皇后做了一些馅饼，而红桃皇后的武士把他们都偷走了。这是今年行星活动的一个核心主题。就像红桃皇后一样，在感情方面你开始有一些进展。但好像有人要抢走你的机会。那么，谁是这个武士呢？是你的另一半呢？或者也许就是你自己？
现在，伴随所有的魅力和热情，你通常会得到你想要的。你想要最好的，并且知道它不是免费的。但过高期望的另一面是，你不可避免地得到失望。你的伴侣不能符合你心中投射的形象。
今年三月，或许你开始接受一段关系，它不是'既成事实' ，它是伴随顺境，逆境，平淡的一段永无止境的舞蹈。好消息是，从6月中旬至九月下旬，如果你是单身，将会有一场新的恋情；如果你已经有伴侣，那将迎来一场疯狂的冒险。
木星的影响提醒你：生活应该是享受做自己，而不是否认自己。你觉得解放和叛逆，你是唯一对你诚实的人，性感的火花开始往正确的方向飞行。和一心想要回馅饼的红桃国王不同，你的伴侣或新的崇拜者也开始意识到：你需要关注和真正值得尊重的是你非凡的才华。您可以在阳历年底感受到感情的成功，当然前提是你真的努力了。
★★★摩羯座——译者：冒险家Amanda
新的一年，面瘫君要用全新的视角来看世界了。世界是粉红色，温暖，氤氲缭绕，梦幻的世外桃源。但等等，现实并非如此啊。应该是分门别类摆整齐打好标签命好名啊不是吗？（我怎么觉得最近占星师们组团吐糟摩羯呢……）不过话说回来，我们到底是在讨论谁眼里的现实呢？
记住，尽管面瘫君你是一个现实的思想者，其实在您老的那张脸后头，还藏着一个浪漫的瘾君子。你和我们这些凡夫俗子一样，渴望相见恨晚的感觉，隐秘的激情和禁忌之爱。只是你那一贯的实事求是的批判精神常常升级为自我保护的面具，在你陷入温柔乡之前榨干着那些新鲜饱满的爱的汁液。但是，另一重现实是，单身的摩羯在这个春天会体验到纯粹的爱，有伴儿的摩羯，将会与伴侣重燃爱之火焰。诚然，对于对你和他人的对错好坏，大摩羯有自己独到犀利的见解。但是，给矛盾打一针麻醉剂来麻木那些问题会使我们对麻木上瘾。没感觉可以让我们摆脱责任，但是粉饰的问题是，我们也会将美好同时扼杀。
7月行星们排排坐，大摩羯要给自己的感情吃果果，无论是好是坏，请对它们负责，让你的世界再次充满爱。毕竟说到底，忠于你的视角的才是唯一的现实。9月的星象为你带来积极的推进和改变，但首先你要知道自己想要什么，自己的真爱是谁。
★★★水瓶座——译者：$_$
这个一月，你会想知道，幸福的家庭生活，而不是事业、社交或者物质，才是你真心渴望的。并且伴随着一切都在向前走，有力的情感冒到表面，你已经不再像看上去那么理智。如果你是单身，会发现太容易变得过于热情，和明知道不是你的菜的那些人调情~
但是这个三月，由于你的情感往复，浪漫有可能带来某些你意识到你生活中一直以来缺少的东西哟。但是你也许出于一种情绪混乱的状态中，你正在经历那些真正放开的时刻，真心让你自己相信，并且这一切都有点震惊。
土星的影响会让你在3月到7月冷静下来，巧妙地让你和长期承诺保持距离，你能在过去的爱情经历中看到类似的事情吗？当你知道这是你的一种处事方式，随着一点点自我意识，浪漫的猎豹就有可能改变目标哦。在一段感情中你对友谊和亲密默契的需求是没问题的，但是就像这段感情看起来那么令人惊奇一样，你也需要浪漫中的公平分享。如果没有被自动提供，在7月开口要求吧。 为了确保你能得到自己心之所想，学学爱丽丝漫游记中的走在黄砖道上的多萝西吧，大胆说出你心中想要的，然后9月你就会得到哟~~~（黄砖道是爱丽斯漫游仙境里爱丽斯走的那条路,她和稻草人,铁皮人他们一起沿着那条路去找男巫,因为巫师会帮助他们实现愿望）。
★★★双鱼座——译者：与神对话
在土星的清醒影响下，你意识到自己被某种阴云已经笼罩了一段时间，而对爱情浪漫而理想主义的情感简直就是浪费时间，自己怎么会天真地相信这一切，当你心碎，以争吵收场，怨恨，离开时，又该如何坚持？不过土星也赋予了你为爱抉择的责任感，它会迫使你看清那些与你有关的人或事并非偶然，他们会进入你的世界正是因为你。
二月，释放你的内在声音，表明你和别人一样有足够的权利遵循自己价值观生活，如果恰好与你的伴侣或爱人吻合，这会非常棒，不过要确保这不是你在自欺欺人。可能你对身处孤独有种强烈的恐惧感，是否会为此隐忍自己的个性而妥协？其实你是不是也向往那些了解你底线的人对你有诚意的尊重？考虑一下自己是否感到来自于他人带给自己的责任压力，如果有伴侣的话会不会来自于对方，或者如果你单身，是不是来自对自我的苛责比如“好吧，可能我从来都找不到伴”。不过请相信我，确实有个专属于你的人在那里，不需要太长时间你便会意识到TA是谁。
7月中旬，你开始认识到对抗自己的恐惧和不安一直是最艰难的抗争，但也总是因此让你成为最能够独立自主的人。十月，踏上寻宝之路，你将会发现满满一箱【仁慈】，不要因为享受了快乐而感到不安或内疚，也不要拒绝那些能真正带给你幸福的事。人就该这样，让喜悦引领你，任何时候你都有权利确保自己有一个健康的自我。2014为什么不换个活法？
Sarah's Year Ahead in Love horoscopes for 2014
With resplendent Jupiter moving into passionate Leo this summer, this is a year when we can all expect miracles to happen in our particular love department.
Saturn may still cause us some emotional ups and downs until the end of 2014, but it gives us time to modify our plans, take care with our hearts, not leap into the deep end too soon, and to know that gut instinct will always pay off where wishful thinking won't. We have the chance to follow our soul's delight and discover a new and better pathway to loving.
ARIES
If you repeat as a mantra the following three words every morning in the mirror for the first week of January, it will generate an extroardinary change of destiny for the better. The words are: Passion, Persuasion and Puissance. Your persuasive seduction technique and your veritable puissance, are going to lead you down the road of love's greatest adventure this year.
If attached, questions arise mid February about how to keep your freedom (precious as it is to any ram) and yet be part of a double-act? It just takes compromise and acceptance of each other's need for space. If single, new love beckons mid April, and if attached you want to discuss your fears and doubts and insecurities. Is this love affair just a rush towards the same old ending which usually includes huge doses of guilt for wanting more time to yourself, pangs of boredom and the same old routine? Or is it that you need love to unfurl so there's always a dream to chase and a rainbow to discover?
But May and June bring light relief and a chance to avoid the truth. But face it you must. And that's your right to love the way only you can. Freely. Throughout September and October, you have renewed self-belief and grace, and a chance to take the odd romantic risk. So repeat your mantra of passion, persuasion and puissance, and you will know how to love from your heart.
TAURUS
This new year, think of yourself first. Single, you'll have a choice of admirers and if attached time to enjoy the social whirl. But Saturn, the old iron-fist and authoritarian figure of the zodiac still plods on through your relationship angle of your chart until the end of the year.
If you're about to make any long term commitments or decisions, then best to put off until July, even if that seems a long time away. But if you want to remind your partner that you're not just an oily rag and you do have ambitions of your own, or simply tell them you're the reliable lover and partner who will always be there for them, then don't hesitate.
April, you feel a sense of awakening, as if someone says a key word which triggers a whole change of attitude about yourself. Just don't make any hasty decisions concerning your most personal of feelings. Even if your partner or admirer is acting negatively about your future, they're probably just confused about what you want from this relationship.
July and August, you sort out any differences of opinion between you. And the sense of a deeper and long-lasting bond seems not too far away. Whether single or attached, at last someone respects your self-sufficient qualities as much as you respect theirs. A lover merger is on its way early October.
GEMINI
The 13th century Sufi poet, Rumi wrote, 'open the window and ask the moon to come and press it's face against mine, breathe into me.' And this theme of lunar magic is strangely resonant in your chart this year. I know you don't show your feelings too readily. After all, you're a level-headed and rational air sign and emotional stuff has it's place. But it's time to let the moonlight into your life.
By March, you realize that you do need unconditional love, you do need to have plenty of space and freedom, and you do need to be somebody special in your own right, for all your love of humanity. Whether single or attached, the planets are pushing you to express those needs.
By the middle of May, there are big questions about a current relationship to be answered. But first make sure you know what those questions truly are. It may seem as if nobody really understands you at the end of June. Or you're battling with coolness, distance and assorted rules and regulations expressed by a lover or admirer. But the summer spirit will of course take you out of yourself, and socially you can do what you do best. Mingle, observe and be the cosmopolitan and civilized life and soul of every party. But underneath that maverick exterior, and behind the chitchat and the intellectual panache, something still needs to come to life. That's you. So in the words of Rumi again, 'open the love-window. The moon won't use the door, only the window." And it's that moon magic that you're truly searching for this year. Let it 'breathe into you.'
CANCER
Now the universe is a pretty chaotic and therefore coincidental place. Sometimes we ask and we get, sometimes we are surprised by the synchronisty of love's mysterious ways, at others cynically dismiss it all as 'a load of rubbish'. But within your heart and soul is a growing awareness of what is right for you and what is not. There are many pathways to follow, many choices to be made this year, and whether single or attached you can begin to act upon those desires rather than believe them to be a waste of time.
Saturn's influence in your sign giving you the chance to make your destiny all your own too. Perhaps to chose between two people, or to free yourself from the chains of 'static' relationships. Perhaps to move in new circles to coincidentally, or intentionally, bump into a stranger who mirrors the love inside you. By the middle of July, at last someone is listening to you rather than thinking of themselves.
And whether you believe in yourself or not, in August you have a will, an ego and boundaries, and it's time to honour them. A love affair or long-term relationship can often feel like the poet Rossetti said, "Two separate divided silences." But within that silence is a voice, your soul, inner guide, your higher self, whatever you like to call it, which is demanding you make room for it to be heard and loved by someone special this coming autumn.
LEO
Love and marriage may go together like a horse and carriage, but togetherness should never be take for granted. This February, your partner had better keep up with you, as you’re thinking up new exciting adventures and expeditions to undertake – with or without them.
If you’re single, setting off to warmer continents in search of a passionate human beast with whom you can surf, waterski and sunbathe, and who will stimulate you mentally as well as physically, is just the sort of adventure which will pay dividends this spring. A feeling of restlessness is difficult to suppress and a niggling little feeling that the grass is greener elsewhere, has you testing new ground and pushing the boundaries in May. Just make sure that the boundaries you’re pushing are ones you actually want to break free from.
Determined action brings results in July. With Jupiter pushing on into your sign, you’re in the mood to win, and whether that applies to a game of tennis or a lover's heart, you’re taking no prisoners. But this September, allow yourself time to rest and think, get out into the fresh air, eat sensibly, have occasional detox days and pamper yourself a little, or you’ll find it hard to deal with the build-up of demanding families and work.
Try to find time to meditate, understand the reasons behind your worries and count to ten before saying something you might regret late October. But with vivid and beneficial energy all round you in November, you are ready for new emotional responses and powerfully passionate exchanges.
VIRGO
This new year, just for a moment, think about the concept of chaos theory. There, everything is meant to be as it is, and there are a million, trillion infinite connections between the snowflake on the lawn and the stranger at the party who's eyes linger a while as you pass by. And perhaps, as Douglas Adams observed, the answer to the meaning of life is 42, but what is the question?
This year you see how love moves in mysterious ways. But if you want order in the kitchen, control in the boudoir, and of course a handle on your expenditure, then by March you'll feel as if you're not in such control as you thought. You feel that the 'eternal now' is a fine philosophy, but what about your personal sense of security for the future? It feels threatened by disorderly relating. Visionary, opportunists and admirers lead you astray if single, the heat turns up high, passion and sensual desires clammer for attention by mid June. But mid July, order will prevail, and you will feel that love is containable. And for all the romance and surprises and grand flames of sexual desire, it's quite nice actually to return to normal, whatever that is. And then, for a while the spirit of the summer takes you out of yourself, and you indulge and laugh and make love and feel good to be you.
Then, come the end of October, some voice inside, your inner angel perhaps, whispers to you 'feel the passion, see the love between you, hear the rain, taste the unknown, they are all the chaos that is you.' It's time to liberate yourself from the theory that the cosmos is an orderly place.
LIBRA
It's funny how a lot of words that begin with the letters FL seem very approriate to your behaviour and character this 2014. Like flirtatious, flighty, flair, flamboyant and well, there's also fleshpot and flawless. But I think you get the drift. In fact if you're not flitting around from place to place, then you'll be flicking through the travel brochures on the hunt for exotic shores and new romance.
This April, it's time to declutter your heart and spring into romantic life again. Creative thoughts and sexy urges bubble into life and you know you've got to do something to make a relationship move forward. But What? May is a fantastic starting point to define your love goals, check out your true values and start living by your own rules. For what are they if not a very unique expression of who you are? There will be people out there (potential admirers if single, a partner if attached), who will probably raise their hands in surprise rather than a glass of champagne to celebrate the new, sizzling, self-motivated you.
But come June communication channels open again, and you can now ask the very questions you've been avoiding. Does your partner want some kind of commitment or is it just a physical thing? And more importantly, can you envisage spending your future with them? If single, by September it's time to hang out with the one you love. This year is going to be a rollercoaster ride to successful relating, but first do some flitting, enjoy your flirtatious nature, and go with the flow of love.
SCORPIO
Through many lunar cycles over the past year, you've been moved to say or do things that perhaps you don't really believe in. You just react, you just do it, because otherwise, would anyone love you for being yourself? But this 2014, you're slowly tapping the tambourine of your own rhythm, seeing that to take a chance on yourself might actually make you feel more secure inside than less.
March, people seem brimming with confidence, lovers eager to take control of the fun, and you, perhaps still fooling yourself that you don't need to take a risk here and there. But you do. Step out of yourself, learn direct assertiveness, and accept that sometimes you make mistakes, like choosing the wrong wardrobe, or even the wrong partner. Saturn's focus in your own sign until July, prods and pokes you to express your feelings, to admit you fear isolation, and you need to belong. And that you are a bit of a paradox: emotionally giving, but also withholding.
Ask yourself these questions, and honestly answer them this August, when the planets give you a valuable mirror to look objectively at yourself. Is your life fulfilling? Are your true desires being met? And by October, the breakable porcelain that love is, can be mended and healed or fixed. But only if you take action, communicate and say to yourself, lover or new admirer that you will take the odd risk in love. And that means the enchantment which is truly unbreakable and solid, can at last begin.
SAGITTARIUS
There's an old nursery rhyme about the Queen of Hearts making some tarts, and the Knave of Hearts stealing them. And this is a core theme to this year's planetary activity. And like the Queen of Hearts you're beginning to make progress in love's cookery department. But it does seem as if someone out there keeps snatching away your chance to make it all real. So who is this Knave of Hearts? Is it the one you're with, a rival, or is it perhaps yourself?
Now, with all that charisma and fire, you usually get what you want. You want the best in life and know that it doesn't come freely. But the down side of high expectations is that you inevitably get let down. Your partner can't live up to the image you've projected onto them.
This March, perhaps you begin to accept that a relationship is not a 'fait accompli', it is a never-ending dance of good times, bad times, and indifferent ones. Yet, the good news is that from mid june to late September, you're up for new romance if single, rampant adventure if attached.
Then Jupiter's 's influence reminds you that life is all about enjoying yourself rather than denying you have one. You feel liberated and rebellious, and you're at last being honest with yourself, and the sexual spark begin to fly in the right direction. And, rather like the King of Hearts who demanded the tarts back, your partner or new admirer also begins to realise that you need attention and true respect for your extraordinary talents. You can make love work for you at the end of the calendar year but only if you work at it too.
CAPRICORN
This new year, you start to see the world through different eyes. Now it's rose-coloured, warm, misty, dreamy, escapist. But hang on, reality isn't supposed to be like that. It's meant to be sorted out, labelled, given a name, isn't it? But then again who's version of reality are we actually talking about?
Remember, as much as you're a pragmatic thinker, you're also a secret romance addict. You yearn for brief encounters, hidden passion and forbidden love just like the rest of us. It's just the good old down to earth 'judgemental' side of you usually rises to the defensive bait and squishes the creative love juices before they get a hold of you. But the 'other' reality you're experiencing this spring is one of sheer in-loveness if single, and if attached a renewed sense of magic between you and your partner. Yes, of course you have a sharply defined view of what is right, wrong, good or bad for you and others. But rather like having a shot of anesthetic to numb an irritating area, we can get addicted to the numbness. Having 'no feeling' means we are free from responsibility for them, but the problem with stamping out the negative ones, means we often stamp out the beautiful ones too.
July's planetary line-up says, honour your feelings, take responsibilty for them, good and bad, and let love flow into your world again. After all, the only reality at the end of the day is yours. September's line-up will promote change for the better, but first know what it is you want, and who you truly love.
AQUARIUS
This January, you're wondering if a happy home life, rather than career, socialising and material goodies, is perhaps what you truly desire after all. And while all this is going on, powerful emotions are bubbling to the surface and you’re no longer as sensible as you appear. If you’re single you’re finding it all-to-easy to become passionately besotted and infatuated with someone you thought wasn't really your type when you first met.
But this March, as long as your feelings are reciprocated, romance could lead to something that you realise has been seriously lacking in your life. But you might also be in a state of emotional turmoil. You’re experiencing moments of really opening up and truly letting yourself trust - and it’s a bit of a shock.
As Saturn's influence pushes you to cool your affections from March to July, subtly distancing yourself from long-term commitment, can you see a pattern in your relationship history? Once you know it’s a pattern, with a little self-awareness, it's possible for a romantic leopard to change their spots. Your need for friendship and intellectual rapport in a relationship is fine, but surprising as it may seem, you also need your fair share of romance. If it’s not being given automatically, ask for it this July. To be sure to achieve your hearts desire, like Dorothy on the yellow Brick Road, you need merely to speak out loud what your heart wants and it will be given to you this September.
PISCES
With Saturn's sober influence, you've been under a kind of dark cloud for some time. A feeling that perhaps all that romance and idealism about love is simply a waste of time. How can it ever come true or be sustained when hearts get broken and people end up fighting, hating or leaving? But Saturn is also giving you a sense of responsibility for your choices in love. It forces you to see that it's not the people or the things out there which 'do it' to you, but that they come into your world because of who you are.
This February, liberate your inner voice, and show that you have as much right as anyone else to live according to your values. If they gel with those of your partner or lover, then that's fine. But make sure you're not just kidding yourself. Maybe you're so fearful of being alone that you agreed to play the game at the expense of your individuality? And are you actually missing out on true respect from someone who understands you have boundaries too? Consider whether you feel under some obligation from others, from your partner if attached, or if single, just from your own sense of, "well maybe I'll never find anyone." But believe me, there IS someone special out there, and it won't be very much longer before you realise who it is.
By the middle of July, you begin to realise that it's those who have the hardest battle against their own fears and insecurities, who often become the most self-reliant. The quest is on, and this October it's a treasure chest of goodness you're about to discover. Don't feel bad or guilty about taking pleasure, nor deny yourself the things you know would make you truly happy. Whoever they are, wherever it is that joy leads you, it's your right to assert a healthy selfishness now and then. So why not this 2014?
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